This is an excerpt from a book I recently completed called Get We Get Better: 48 Treatment Options for Chronic Depression. Following the mental health journey of depression survivor Ruth, it offers numerous practical, evidence-based strategies for improving your physical, behavioral, vocational, relational, cognitive and emotional health. For updates and availability info, subscribe for free to the right. I post two or three articles per month, mostly on the topic of depression.
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Treatment option 19: Engaging in long-term projects and hobbies
According to a study cited in The Happiness Advantage: How a Positive Brain Fuels Success in Work and Life by Shawn Achor, having an activity to look forward to raises endorphin levels significantly. This is especially true when projects and hobbies include creativity, a sense of accomplishment and long-term involvement, such as gardening, crafts, writing, teaching, cooking, sports and many more. Bonus points if the hobby is social and screens aren’t involved.
I am often surprised (and encouraged) by the incredible variety of ways people come up with to entertain themselves. A friend of mine teaches himself tricks on the trampoline, for example. Others plant flower seeds in public urban areas as random acts of kindness. Author David Sedaris has been picking up litter nearly daily for years, and a garbage truck has been named after him. If you don’t have an awesome, fulfilling hobby, consider trying something new, then something else after that. Recreation isn’t just recreation; it’s a deeply meaningful part of the good life.
Volunteer work can be especially satisfying. Psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky, author of The How of Happiness: A New Approach to Getting the Life You Want, found that people who did five random acts of kindness in a single day were much happier than control groups. The aforementioned Martin Seligman, one of the founders of positive psychology, agreed that acts of kindness increase happiness more reliably than any other exercise he has tested. In Learned Optimism: How to Change Your Mind and Your Life he writes, “Depression … stems partly from an overcommitment to the self and an undercommitment to the common good.”
If desired, add “finding a long-term project” or “engaging in my hobby regularly” to your depression treatment plan. Then add it to your ongoing to-do list as well.
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